One of the recurring lessons of my own rebounding experience has been to take my eyes off of what others are doing and put them squarely on the only things that I can actually do anything about – my own actions, thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. It is so easy to fall into the trap of the blame game, however…
Rebounding is such an ongoing process, there really is no end and no beginning. Ultimately acknowledging that can be freeing but it can also be extremely frustrating! I run into the feelings of “when will this ever be OVER?” time and time again. What I’m really hitting on with that frustration is actually where all the good stuff really sits waiting for us…
Every time I turn the corner, I’m reminded how much I don’t know. I just read a report about book marketing and it made me feel like crying, truthfully. How could it be that after all the sweat and tears of writing the book, that I could be facing the daunting task of marketing the book as a neophyte, as green and as new to it as if I just had started writing yesterday? It blows my mind, actually…Clearly it is time to roll up my sleeves and get very busy learning!
There are days (and then there are more days!) that I just want to scream in frustration that nothing seems to happen as fast as I’d like it to…and then there are the other days that suddenly provide you portals into that space of deliverance, completion, fruition. And when it happens it is magical…
Oh my goodness, I was setting up an appointment yesterday and I realized that February is right around the corner – wow! And how did January get so fast anyways?? For me, the adage “Time flies when you’re having fun” applies right now- I think January is flying by in part because I’m not watching the clock – I’m having fun in the moment!